jealousy

Almost-Insane · 07-14-2007, 06:11 PM

this is bit of a rant at myself and also bit of a problem. everytime someone from my group of friends meets or starts talkin to others i get a big jealousy feeling through me which is wrong coz i dont really have the right to be annoyed at others meetin ppl coz it wouldnt be fair to stop them and id be a hypocrit aswell coz id be annoyed if someone tried to stop me from meetin ppl (i think this ties in with my other anger thread) but i cant help it and i need to learn how to stop this, its makin me feel bad and will hav more effects if i keep lettin it get to me. im also really selfish coz i want everythin to go my way and hav things suit me always, any difference and i get all annoyed and start thinkin ppl are against me which is wrong coz there just doin things there way and i cant spk up coz im afraid of any confrontation. quite an annoyin situation for me but maybe actually speakin and admittin things will help me get my act together and be more fair towards others.

OzzieJess · 07-15-2007, 09:52 AM

how old are you??
just a question.
You need to stop and remember the world isnt against you. and your friends are your friends. you just have to stop. it's not god for you health and it will drive your friends away.

are you an only child?
You want everything to go your way. but in life very few things will. life isnt easy and you have to learn to just relax and go with the follow. you can't control everyone. no one can.

does this make any sence?

Almost-Insane · 07-15-2007, 10:52 AM

im 17 and yes its stupid coz i hav my whole life ahead and i shouldnt worry but i do and its not fair on others coz they havent done wrong, its just me and my misguided thoughts which i need to sort out but its quite hard to do. ye it makes sense, thanks im just tryin to figure out how to get past all this.

OzzieJess · 07-16-2007, 09:58 AM

with time it'll past. it sounds like your just feeling a bit insecure at the moment.

just ride it out. and think before you act.

i hope everything goes ok.

!-nessica-! · 07-18-2007, 05:15 AM

i know what you mean.. im like that some of the times.. but as Jess said, its just insecurity issues. and your friends are your friends. dont expect too much from them.. but dont let them walk over you.

Broken_mind · 07-27-2007, 01:23 AM

that was really rude betsy!

u just need to chill hunni things will always happen it annoys me too but meh we cant help it x