My bloody (curse words) mother

nelvannya · 10-09-2008, 01:37 AM

SO my mother dear god, I really want another hurricane to strike. She is getting on my fucking nerves.
So it started about two weeks ago, she had finally gotten back after being gone for a month helping the moron hurrican victims (I say moron because newcasters told them they would die, you are a fucking moron if you stayed) in Galveston. And I for about a month had been running the household, taking care of my brother, at school, at work, at rehearsal, at big brothers big sisters, at rotc, at speech and debate, and of course I have high positions in everything I do (I am ambitious) so I am running all of this shit, as well as participating. And of course setting my own curfew, where I go, and whom I go with. So she is fucking home making new fucking rules that I will not be out for anything longer than 2 hours with anyone, because I have become too stressed to work (I quit a while ago) and that I will not trade work for a social life... blah blah blah. She then on top of that was not allowing me to go out on certain nights "we need family time", this translates to "Jean is busy and James is out of town so I have nothing better do to". So on one of these night that I was to stay home, I told her I had study group I didnt I wanted to go mudding. Long story short we got stuck and we were out there until about 11, so I got busted and then grounded for 3 weeks, threatened to kick me out, not allow me to go to zero period (class), called a liar. Which really annoys me how am I a liar after one lie when I have years of honesty under my belt... we call this a mistake. But none the less I understand the punishment
So I snuck out again but to actually get some help with economics homework (she had jean and james that night so she was no where to be found in the house) anyways she busted me after using my brother to tell her where I was, which she didnt tell me because if she had she would have known I would have ripped her a new one (we do not use the other sibling against the other)! SO she then grounded me for 3 months, has taken all of my keys, escorts me anywhere I go...
So now she is going at it again, I was busy with my hours of homework and my brother was making mashed potatoes but not in her timely manner, so she stormed out bitched about our attitude...
WELL FUCK OFF! FUCK OFF! FUCK OFF! I have been busy doing what I need to do, you have been missing for a long time... how do you expect your household to so quickly snapped to your annoying militian (she gets a little military like because she was away with the army) demands. We have been in charge for a month, plus the 6 months before that on our own... FUCK OFF
She is such an annoyance, such a bother! Its so annoying this is my senior year I do not have time to deal with a fucking OCD coping with depression, just got back from the army way of life bitch.
TAKE YOUR DAMN MEDS AND SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!

Broken_mind · 10-10-2008, 07:53 AM

I think when u get a change (if you get a chance) get a set of your brother or sister's keys copied and hide them. That way u have them if you realllly get stuck in!

Almost-Insane · 10-10-2008, 10:55 PM

if you can then get a key cut for yourself, dont let anyone else near it. if i were in your position id ignore the whole being grounded idea just do what you want really, in the end if she tries to throw you out then just say something like 'nah its cool i think ill stay' i dont think she would have you physically thrown out (this is a minor assumption i realise that i could be wrong).

Markme · 10-11-2008, 10:49 AM

i know as cliche as this sounds coming from me, but your her daughter... perhaps you should stop trying to run/be inchage of the house hold and just stand back.
if she wants to be all military on you, just agree with her dont fight it, because you already know shes gonna go postal on you.
thats why you joined debating, for conflict and to prove your right, so dont bring that into your mums house and maybe things will cool off a little.

your on the easy side of life, my mum called the cops on me once and asked if there was anything they could lock me up for.

CJDude · 10-11-2008, 03:56 PM

Nelv, a cople of things in your story are confusing to me.

if you are old enuff and responsible enuff to run your house hold for 6 months at a time, that sugests to me that you would be at least 18 years old?

and if you are 18 then you can make your own desisions in life, being grownded be damnd!

How ever, if you are under 18, which your mother sugests, then you do indeed have to abide by her rules, it is her house after all, but their is no way in hell that you should be looking after younger siblings for longer than a day or 2. and if thats the case, my professonal insticts are crying out neglect to me!

nelvannya · 10-12-2008, 03:03 PM

Nope I am not 18... we just didnt tell anyone, she sent money and we talked on the phone it worked out fine.
I dont have an issue with looking after him, it is just how can you trust me with that kind of responsiblity and then pull the reigns in so quickly after you get home?
In response to you Mark, the thing is there is nothing to debate, there is just standing there asking "what"... and yes its not like your situation but however it effects me and sucks.
I am a little more annoyed than anything is that she has damaged our relationship. She has blown this completely out of portion (however I dont exactly know what it was to blow), she has actually pulled the silent treatment shit. In less then a week its like all we have worked for in our relationship went to hell. I can not get her to say but two words for me... this is not us we fight, get the hell over and have tea.

Almost-Insane · 10-12-2008, 03:20 PM

just go postal on her, thatll put her in her place. take the reigns and go nuts she might not be able to handle it and give in.

nelvannya · 10-12-2008, 03:25 PM

Lols I think I am going to pull and Almost Insane... I am liking the idea... I also might stay with a few friends for a week. I am really done with this... she has even contacted the school to make sure I am there...lols

Almost-Insane · 10-12-2008, 03:30 PM

honestly go raj on her just scream, yell, shout, everything, throw things, mess your hair do the lot. even if you dont say anything that makes sense just go RRRRAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRR in her direction with the evil eye aswell. one thing older people, especially parents, cant deal with is going postal do that and there like 'holy shit i aint going near that crazy bitch again' lol.

nelvannya · 10-12-2008, 03:37 PM

haha thats the funny shit I have heard all week. lols thankyou
But I think I will stick with staying with a few friends.

BTW I really like your sig

Almost-Insane · 10-12-2008, 03:40 PM

its like the best motto ever: when in doubt...go fucking nuts (excuse language lol).

yeah friends might be a good idea for now but youll have to face up to the challenge at somepoint.

thanks i got it from a poem (a bad poem but a poem none-the-less) although its in the bible aswell but not where i found it

Markme · 10-13-2008, 05:03 AM

i wouldnt reccomend to everyone to go crazy at your parents, for most people this will get you arrested or kicked out of your house very swiftly.

And for her to not be talking to you, you must have done something offend her.

nelvannya · 10-21-2008, 02:47 AM

Lols so she has been gone again for a week and it has been wonderful!
I think she is having a mini "my baby is going away" blah blah, but I have so much shit to do right now I do not have the ability or energy to fix it. So I am going to work with my debate babies, get my Macbeth memorized, finish my applications, keep my head above water in that horrid economics class, go back to work, be the mother to my brother and then I will go nuts on her...
lols