I feel like a player

[Anonymous]

i dont even know where to start.

i like another girl, but me and her live to far apart and we know we cannot have each other as because that is a big factor.

Theres another girl we have had sex a few times and she asked me if i would ever go out with her, i said yes.. but that didnt mean i would go out with her right away..

and when ever i hook up with girls, i tell them how pretty i think they are and stuff...
i mean its not like im lying to them or anything, as i do genuinely mean what i say. I guess i just word my sentences the way people or in this case girls want to hear them. I guess im a charismatic person,but i dont act sleazy nor do i talk sleazy, do not think im what you call "hot" or anything.. so im stumped with that part.

Thats my ramble

[OzzieJess]

first do you want to go out with the girl you've been sleeping with??? if not you have to tell her. also a huge thing there's no such thing as "it's just sex" to most girls. sex means something. and by the sound of it this girl likes you alot more then she's letting on. if you dont feel the same maybe you should cool it?

i'm not going to say stop sleep around cos that's not up to me. but i'll be careful of getting hurt or hurting other.

[Anonymous]

Yes i told her that i had no feelings for her.
she had stated that she only wanted sexual relations with me and i was fine with that.

I know quite alot of girls and i hang out with mostly girls.
And i think that is how i get myself into trouble, but its just because of the way i say things when some one says something to me, I'm being sarcastic when i say it or im joking and sometimes people dont take it as a joke.

I think im a very flirtatious person.

[OzzieJess]

ok, don't do it. she may have stated that she only wants a sexual relation. but it's still a relationship. What happens if you find someone you like??? how do you just stop the sex with this girl?

You have to be careful. I know you think you are. before me and glenn started dating we were sleeping together. i was fallen for him and i was just friend with benfits. I got hurt a few times from stupid things he said and did. but i hang in there with the hope that he would change and that he would fall for me.

(i was lucky)
sex is never just sex. not to girls.

[Betsybug0]

Originally Posted by OzzieJess
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sex is never just sex. not to girls.

I don't want to go into debate or anything but, I think this is rather unfair.. men have feelings like that too.

Anon, I am having troubles intentifying your problem. Is it that you are a player and don't want to be, or dont want to hurt anyone...?

[Anonymous]

Originally Posted by Betsybug0
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Anon, I am having troubles intentifying your problem. Is it that you are a player and don't want to be, or dont want to hurt anyone...?

Its abit of both, because of the way i act(unintentionally), people think im pushing for more than i really am.

And i know that girls get really hurt, when they believe they are being played. I think that people actually lead them selves on to get hurt, or atleast half of the time. Because i dont walk up to 5 different girls and say i like you and i think we should go out, i just tell them that i think they are beautiful and what i think about them.
Girls really digg compliments.

Would you say that im being too honest with my oppinions or that im doing it subconsciously on purpose?

SO confused!

[Betsybug0]

I don't think you are being too honest, as long as they know it is just sex. I think it's also a bit subconsious when it comes to telling women they are beautiful, but it's not your problem if they fall in love with you.

[!-nessica-!]

you are a player!!! you know you are!!!

[OzzieJess]

Betsybabe. i'm sorry i didnt really mean just girls. guys get hurt too. but yeah.


when you found the right girl you'll settle down. just have fun until then. well not to much fun and just watch your heart.