its a matter of trust

Almost-Insane · 06-01-2007, 06:16 PM

for some reason my friends and i keep on arguing, i dont know why but we just do recently one accused me of calling her fat, which as in most cases where these accusations are made its not true. what is it with woman and thinking almost every comment is a jibe at them being fat? an observation tht her friend is thinner, yeah might sound like im sayin she is but then again she herself admitted tht her friend is very thin and i also said tht neither are fat...so goin by the fact she continues to acuse me of insulting her despite me saying countless times tht her accusations are wrong and tht i dont think she is so goin by this i really think she doesnt trust me and im really started to lose interest in all this but i dunno what i should do next. (i realise the majority of my threads are about females i think we dont mix tht well)

Markme · 06-02-2007, 05:23 AM

i have some friends like that, that often tell them selves that others think this about them.
I'm not really sure on what you can do about this, other than let her know that you didnt say this and that you wouldnt have a reason to say this about her.

Almost-Insane · 06-02-2007, 08:46 AM

i tried that and she denies it apparantly i implied everything so i told her that if i was to say anythin like that id be more direct and just say it.

Broken_mind · 06-24-2007, 10:02 PM

thing is there is 1 of these 2 cos im not sure which u are talkin about that i think could have an eating disorder as she is constanly worrying bout her weight n has got VERY thin lately

Almost-Insane · 06-25-2007, 03:04 PM

i dont think she has a disorder shes just more conscious of her weight now and i think shes just doing more about it than she used to, neither are horribly thin though (or at least i dont think so) but what i get annoyed abt is tht they seem not to trust what i say and bring in all these apparant implications.