Bf troubles

[CyberPhoenix Kay?]

Ok...not much i can tell you...

A, if you need to cry then cry..crying is a form of stress releif you keep it inside you, you're gonna feel worse, you cry you will feel better.
You shouldn't give a shit what anyone else thinks..

Secondly...it doesn't matter if he cheated or not...those texts...seeking attenion..it's pretty much the same thing, he's going to somone else, or multiple people for somthing that he should only get off you, even if it is only attention..

And you should never think less of somone if they cry in front of you, but you gotta be strong...as somone crying can soften a heart like not much else.

[Broken_mind]

i know i gotta stay strong and we did talk the other day n he did cry n i just kept him close to me till he felt better n talked bout what he wanted to. the texts are behind me now and i wanna forget about them and he has made it up to me now in a way. They are always gonna hurt but i dont think he will cheat. i asked him about a girl i thought he could be cheatin on n he said

"I couldnt do it cos i would feel too bad. She is a pretty girl but i dont love her. i love you victoria."

[w0lv3n]

well i hope things are going better for you now darlin!
just pm me if ya wanna talk!

[Broken_mind]

thanks hun i might take u up on that offer x

[Broken_mind]

i had the worst experience ever tonight. i was having sex with my bf and i felt nothing...i just felt numb to him like he was a stranger or something

[heartstrings]

hunny. you need to quit him. all the cheating, all the texts- the dirty texts? huge warning sign, his problems, your problems with him, his family's nonacceptance of your relationship, the age difference (sorry, I know I'm being age-ist), your self-removal from even the physical relationship.. his irresponsibility shown through cheating and dangerous driving? all these signs.. they all point downwards. please rethink it again... you're sixteen. there are so many better guys out there.

[Broken_mind]

thing is i love him and have done for almost 2 years now. i tried to make him mine for so long and in the end i think the good out weighs the bad. total pointless thread i know.

[heartstrings]

aw, i'm sorry. well, i guess i support you, whatever you do. just try not to get too hurt ?

[w0lv3n]

Originally Posted by Broken_mind
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i had the worst experience ever tonight. i was having sex with my bf and i felt nothing...i just felt numb to him like he was a stranger or something

This happening once isnt a huge thing, maybe you just werent in the mood.
But if you end up just f**king and not "making love" (ie: doing it because of the lovey dovey feelings you get aswell as it being sex) then as julia says, it is kinda looking downward.

It is important to remember that you are only 16. - Im 21, thats 5 years.
brief timeline for ya:
2002 -
Age 16
First real relationship ever. We went out for around 5 months. It all went pear shaped and at the end i dont think i shed a tear.

A friendship blossomed with another friend and perhaps something more.

2003 -
Age 17
The friendship that blossomed became a close friendship.

A minor relationship with an another girl

2004 -
Age 18
Friendship became lovers for 4 weeks and then tore my heart to shreds - As my fiance knows, this love was my second deepest and the most painful to lose. Not only did i lose a lover but also a close friend.

Minor relationship with another girl - major consequences.

2005 -
Age 19
3rd REAL relationship ever. After many 3 chances she never really broke up with her original BF. I shouldnt of given her 1 chance. Will go down in my books as the "Stupid fkn slut who hurt me bad"

Met Jess (my fiance)

An array of flings and whatnots
Jess and i started dating.

2006 -
Age 20
With jess

2007 -
Age 21
With jess


I know that may not seem much, but im just trying to show you what can happen in 5 yrs. Obviously theres no detail there, but you can see that lovers and partners came and went.

[Broken_mind]

yeh i get wat ur sayin but i just couldnt do that to him

well more eventful today
he went to court n never told me
bout the dangerous drivin
got fined £300 and got years ban

also thought it would be funny to hit on a transvestite
who then went n posted a comment on my bebo
he txt me in school askin for my password so i could delete it
i gave him it

[Almost-Insane]

it would obv be hard to walk away after all this time and effort but sometimes its whats needed. im going through a slightly similar experiance and i know if i dont sort it out ill be devastated later...make sure your making the right decisions.

[w0lv3n]

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[Broken_mind]

thanks i have added u