Girl problems...

Markme · 07-24-2008, 10:39 AM

OK soo i have a house mate, errr she wont get the idea that there is no possible chance i will ever be anything more than a friend... barely that.

Ive actually told her, that no nothing will happen and that i will never feel that way and i avoid her, i show EXACTLY how i mean it wont be anything else than just friends... i wont let her put her head on my shoulder, touch me, get in my bed.. get any where closer to me than a chick normally would.

I cant move out, legally bound to live here for a year and i wouldnt have any where else to really go while im needed in brisbane.

GAH she buys me dinners and breakfasts and gets offended when i wont eat them... and i wont eat them because im on a fairly strict diet and ive already spent $100 on my own food.
She is annoying the fuck out of me, rings me while im busy to ask if i want to go to the movies.. rings me just to talk for the sake of talking.

GRRRRR i HATE it!
Shes even trying to get this girl that i like from her work, fired! lol and when i hang out with her and her friends, im not allowed to talk to most of them(according to her) because i mention that they are attractive.

Fuck she is a nutter.

Some one tell me how to make her stop.

CJDude · 07-24-2008, 01:54 PM

telling her to stop would be the first step. but do it nicely. tell her that you dont have feelings of that kind for her, but as a person you do think she is nice. Explain to her about your dietry requiremnets, but tell her that you do apprecate the nice things she dose for her. But you need to tell her that trying toget some one fird because you like them is out of line, and you couldnt be freinds with her if she kept that up

OzzieJess · 07-25-2008, 12:28 AM

do the whole.. I don't want to lose our friendship thing. if that doesn't work tell her it me not you..

but if you keep doing what you're doing she'll get bored soon enough and move on.

it's what i would do lol.

Broken_mind · 07-26-2008, 01:00 AM

yeh be straight with her and just say. I dont like the things you do because it makes me uncomfortable and i just want us to be friends do as thingy said and just explain the diet thing

Markme · 07-27-2008, 05:24 AM

i dont care if i lose her friendship... she is like a insanely jelous bitch..
ive been stern with her, ive told her all the things you should..
but im figuring she doesnt want to get the concept that there isnt a snowballs chance in hell that im going to like her.

Yea ive mentioned to her that i cant eat her food because i NEED special foods at different times of the day...
i can eat steak for my 2nd and 5th meal... not any others.

i got really pissed off at her the other day for leaving her mess around the entire house and shes not talking to me any more... which is an upside to this whole situation.

i got another mate moving in, so we will just gym and eat and computer together and she can live her own life...

thanks all for the suggestions

rez · 07-29-2008, 11:09 AM

OK, so you've tried talking to her reasonably and that didn't work... have you tried telling her to back the fuck off - it maeks you uncomfortable and you are considering charing her with harassment

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Hope it works out

Markme · 07-29-2008, 12:06 PM

hahahaha i like that, ehh im looking at breaking my contracting and getting the fuck out of there.

rez · 07-29-2008, 12:48 PM

I have another idea: act like a complete jerk. Leave pizza boxes everywhere, stop washing up, fart in her presense as much as possible, refer to her as "that chick" when people are around. Make HER break contract.

Broken_mind · 07-29-2008, 03:40 PM

ssimple but brilliant
they are all MAJOR turn offs

CJDude · 07-29-2008, 06:23 PM

hell if ur gonna do a fart bit, u may as well fart ON her

Broken_mind · 07-29-2008, 08:58 PM

lmao that would be 100x worse!!!

rez · 07-29-2008, 10:42 PM

lol.
Its her problem, not yours. Its a pity that you're suffering for it.
But broken_mind put it right when she said that those things are major turn offs. But still, you shouldn't have to change because your roommate is crazy. She should leave, not you.

elmtree · 07-31-2008, 08:30 PM

Lmfao, yeah I agree with everyone here. Don't be the nice guy that she's obviously fell for, be absolutely awful to her and she will hate you and wonder what she ever saw in you.
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Markme · 08-01-2008, 08:11 AM

lol yea i have skipped washing her dishes and i tell her to clean up the second she puts something on the floor..
and the other night i said to her " i dont know what you think your chasing, but once you get to the end of my road, knock on my door... im going to open it and then shut it in your face, because you were chasing yourself and not me.." (i was metaphorically speaking)

and i havnt really been home in 2 weeks... well it will be two weeks in a couple days

OzzieJess · 08-08-2008, 06:04 AM

how's it going???