What if YOU did the abusing? (bit long) - Page 2

Markme · 05-13-2008, 01:00 AM

I guess all ive got left to say is that
dude, nothing is impossible, anything can happen and she may forgive you fast enough if you show her how messed up you have been over it and just tell her it was a mistake.

Elyted · 05-13-2008, 07:55 AM

Oh.. CyberPhoenix.. you just reminded me. About the leading on thing..

Umm before it happened when we were in bed, and she was still awake, I took off her bra. And yeahhh.. I was allowed to see and touch her nipples and all that.. playing with boobs is always fun.

And I did try to kiss her but she said that she didn't want to get me sick.

But that's still no excuse for what I did.

CyberPhoenix Kay? · 05-13-2008, 11:27 AM

Umm.... OK, she let you do that? it's no wonder that you were turned on.

I'm not sure she had the right to do that either.

That puts a REALLY big spin on things, i'm not sure what is right or wrong anymore...

And the fact that she would let you do that, but not the other things...is quite odd...

Elyted · 05-13-2008, 11:37 AM

What do you mean by the other things?

nelvannya · 05-13-2008, 12:39 PM

Sweetheart... you did nothing wrong. Sorry to say it but you didnt abuse or assault her. The girl is embaressed about what she did, probably feels a bit sick in the stomach about it. You did nothing wrong... unless you started doing the other things and she said no...

Elyted · 05-13-2008, 12:52 PM

I don't think you understand.
She was asleep when I did the other things? Isn't that abuse?

nelvannya · 05-13-2008, 05:16 PM

Okay so you all were doing something then she asked u to stop doing whatever it was...
the she fell and you kept doing stuff...

Markme · 05-14-2008, 12:24 AM

wow im extremely lost...
so she was asleep but said no you couldnt kiss here.. even though u you were playing with her breasts?

or was she asleep, i dont understand what you are trying to imply

Elyted · 05-14-2008, 07:12 AM

She was AWAKE but I wasn't allowed to kiss her cause she didn't want me to get sick. Pretty sure that was just an excuse though. BUT I was allowed to play with her breasts, while she was AWAKE.

After that, she fell asleep and then I did stuff THROUGH (not in) her pants. But nothing else.

Still bad though. :(

We haven't talked since. It's really eating at me.

CyberPhoenix Kay? · 05-14-2008, 08:49 AM

My guess is that she was awake when you did stuff when she was asleep, then she was too embarrased/guilty about it the next day and so is blaming it on you knowing that you are a nice guy and you will take the guff.

Elyted · 05-14-2008, 10:17 AM

Sort of seems that way actually. But I don't know, she's a pretty heavy sleeper.

It's sort of weird that she was like: 'i'm not sure if you did or not'. then later she seemed so sure and said stuff like: 'i was awake for a few seconds and felt something but i think i told myself it was a dream'.

I really don't know anymore actually.

Elyted · 05-14-2008, 10:22 AM

Wow. Now that I think about it even more..

Okay, I actually tried to go beneath her pants.. yeah, that's bad I know. But every time I tried, she'd like turn away or like move her hand to stop my hand.. I don't think that sounds like she was asleep at all.

CyberPhoenix Kay? · 05-14-2008, 10:50 AM

You should probably ask her directly, or more tell her than ask her, becuase she was.

"You were awake, weren't you?"

Even if she denies it, she will know that you know, and that he fascade no longer holds, hopefully resolving the problem.

nelvannya · 05-15-2008, 04:04 AM

I really think the girl knew what she was doing and now regrets it.

CyberPhoenix Kay? · 05-15-2008, 09:59 AM

I couldn't agree more nelv.

05-13-2008, 01:00 AM	#16 (permalink)
Markme Im a triangle Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 2,152 My Mood: Blog Entries: 10	I guess all ive got left to say is that dude, nothing is impossible, anything can happen and she may forgive you fast enough if you show her how messed up you have been over it and just tell her it was a mistake. __________________ All the things we used to think were happiness, in the end were only pleasures.

05-13-2008, 07:55 AM	#17 (permalink)
Elyted Well Established Member Of This Awesome Society Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: ACT, Australia Posts: 118 My Mood:	Oh.. CyberPhoenix.. you just reminded me. About the leading on thing.. Umm before it happened when we were in bed, and she was still awake, I took off her bra. And yeahhh.. I was allowed to see and touch her nipples and all that.. playing with boobs is always fun. And I did try to kiss her but she said that she didn't want to get me sick. But that's still no excuse for what I did. __________________ - darkness will never take over our hearts Last edited by Elyted : 05-13-2008 at 08:00 AM.

05-13-2008, 11:27 AM	#18 (permalink)
CyberPhoenix Kay? Kitchen Bitch. Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Sunshine Coast, QLD, Australia Posts: 1,058 My Mood: Blog Entries: 3	Umm.... OK, she let you do that? it's no wonder that you were turned on. I'm not sure she had the right to do that either. That puts a REALLY big spin on things, i'm not sure what is right or wrong anymore... And the fact that she would let you do that, but not the other things...is quite odd... __________________ "As long as you derive inner help and comfort from anything, keep it." - Mahatma Gandhi I AM MALE! ,-,-, ';,,;' ,-,-, HERMIT DE CRAB ,-,-, ';,,;' ,-,-,

05-13-2008, 11:37 AM	#19 (permalink)
Elyted Well Established Member Of This Awesome Society Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: ACT, Australia Posts: 118 My Mood:	What do you mean by the other things? __________________ - darkness will never take over our hearts

05-13-2008, 12:39 PM	#20 (permalink)
nelvannya Tacha! Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Still, unfortunately Texas Posts: 748 My Mood: Blog Entries: 14	Sweetheart... you did nothing wrong. Sorry to say it but you didnt abuse or assault her. The girl is embaressed about what she did, probably feels a bit sick in the stomach about it. You did nothing wrong... unless you started doing the other things and she said no... __________________ You hear, O LORD, the desire of the afflicted; you encourage them, and you listen to their cry, defending the fatherless and the oppressed, in order that man, who is of the earth, may terrify no more. Psalm 10:17-18

05-13-2008, 12:52 PM	#21 (permalink)
Elyted Well Established Member Of This Awesome Society Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: ACT, Australia Posts: 118 My Mood:	I don't think you understand. She was asleep when I did the other things? Isn't that abuse? __________________ - darkness will never take over our hearts

05-13-2008, 05:16 PM	#22 (permalink)
nelvannya Tacha! Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Still, unfortunately Texas Posts: 748 My Mood: Blog Entries: 14	Okay so you all were doing something then she asked u to stop doing whatever it was... the she fell and you kept doing stuff... __________________ You hear, O LORD, the desire of the afflicted; you encourage them, and you listen to their cry, defending the fatherless and the oppressed, in order that man, who is of the earth, may terrify no more. Psalm 10:17-18

05-14-2008, 12:24 AM	#23 (permalink)
Markme Im a triangle Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 2,152 My Mood: Blog Entries: 10	wow im extremely lost... so she was asleep but said no you couldnt kiss here.. even though u you were playing with her breasts? or was she asleep, i dont understand what you are trying to imply __________________ All the things we used to think were happiness, in the end were only pleasures.

05-14-2008, 07:12 AM	#24 (permalink)
Elyted Well Established Member Of This Awesome Society Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: ACT, Australia Posts: 118 My Mood:	She was AWAKE but I wasn't allowed to kiss her cause she didn't want me to get sick. Pretty sure that was just an excuse though. BUT I was allowed to play with her breasts, while she was AWAKE. After that, she fell asleep and then I did stuff THROUGH (not in) her pants. But nothing else. Still bad though. :( We haven't talked since. It's really eating at me. __________________ - darkness will never take over our hearts

05-14-2008, 08:49 AM	#25 (permalink)
CyberPhoenix Kay? Kitchen Bitch. Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Sunshine Coast, QLD, Australia Posts: 1,058 My Mood: Blog Entries: 3	My guess is that she was awake when you did stuff when she was asleep, then she was too embarrased/guilty about it the next day and so is blaming it on you knowing that you are a nice guy and you will take the guff. __________________ "As long as you derive inner help and comfort from anything, keep it." - Mahatma Gandhi I AM MALE! ,-,-, ';,,;' ,-,-, HERMIT DE CRAB ,-,-, ';,,;' ,-,-,

05-14-2008, 10:17 AM	#26 (permalink)
Elyted Well Established Member Of This Awesome Society Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: ACT, Australia Posts: 118 My Mood:	Sort of seems that way actually. But I don't know, she's a pretty heavy sleeper. It's sort of weird that she was like: 'i'm not sure if you did or not'. then later she seemed so sure and said stuff like: 'i was awake for a few seconds and felt something but i think i told myself it was a dream'. I really don't know anymore actually. __________________ - darkness will never take over our hearts

05-14-2008, 10:22 AM	#27 (permalink)
Elyted Well Established Member Of This Awesome Society Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: ACT, Australia Posts: 118 My Mood:	Wow. Now that I think about it even more.. Okay, I actually tried to go beneath her pants.. yeah, that's bad I know. But every time I tried, she'd like turn away or like move her hand to stop my hand.. I don't think that sounds like she was asleep at all. __________________ - darkness will never take over our hearts Last edited by Elyted : 05-14-2008 at 10:30 AM.

05-14-2008, 10:50 AM	#28 (permalink)
CyberPhoenix Kay? Kitchen Bitch. Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Sunshine Coast, QLD, Australia Posts: 1,058 My Mood: Blog Entries: 3	You should probably ask her directly, or more tell her than ask her, becuase she was. "You were awake, weren't you?" Even if she denies it, she will know that you know, and that he fascade no longer holds, hopefully resolving the problem. __________________ "As long as you derive inner help and comfort from anything, keep it." - Mahatma Gandhi I AM MALE! ,-,-, ';,,;' ,-,-, HERMIT DE CRAB ,-,-, ';,,;' ,-,-,

05-15-2008, 04:04 AM	#29 (permalink)
nelvannya Tacha! Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Still, unfortunately Texas Posts: 748 My Mood: Blog Entries: 14	I really think the girl knew what she was doing and now regrets it. __________________ You hear, O LORD, the desire of the afflicted; you encourage them, and you listen to their cry, defending the fatherless and the oppressed, in order that man, who is of the earth, may terrify no more. Psalm 10:17-18

05-15-2008, 09:59 AM	#30 (permalink)
CyberPhoenix Kay? Kitchen Bitch. Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Sunshine Coast, QLD, Australia Posts: 1,058 My Mood: Blog Entries: 3	I couldn't agree more nelv. __________________ "As long as you derive inner help and comfort from anything, keep it." - Mahatma Gandhi I AM MALE! ,-,-, ';,,;' ,-,-, HERMIT DE CRAB ,-,-, ';,,;' ,-,-,

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