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05-15-2008, 12:01 PM
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I believe her now. She was asleep. I messed up badly, I don't know if I can make it through this now but i'm going to have to.. my cousin just had twins today.. both girls and she needs me there. It would be horrible if I died during a time like this. But it's just so hard.. to be honest, this is the first time i've truly considered killing myself. I have honestly never felt worse in my entire life. I love her.
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05-15-2008, 12:47 PM
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No there is no reason to kill yourself. Sweetie this really really does not sound as horrible as it was portrayed first. I think the girl made a mistake.. whatever happened there was at least a tiny degree of a two way street, a street that she participated in.
I really think the girl has some regrets and now she is crying Wolf
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05-15-2008, 01:49 PM
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We both have regrets but..
I'm over it now. I'm fine. I've decided that even though she may not love me, even though she may hate me, does it really matter? I love her. That's enough. I'm not going to kill myself. I'm going to get over this, i'm going to move on. I'm going to do this for her. I'm going to live my life.
And she is the light of my life, she will always be in my heart.
I'm okay now..
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05-16-2008, 05:04 AM
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i think she needs to wake up a little bit and see that she was in the wrong more so than you..
she is lying to you, i think you should tell her to take a hike
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05-16-2008, 07:26 AM
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No, she's not in the wrong at all and she's not lying to me. She was asleep and I feel pretty bad for ever doubting her.
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05-16-2008, 08:44 AM
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Well, you've got 3 people (at least) that think she is lieing too you, maybe you are right....but i don't think so.
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05-16-2008, 12:53 PM
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Tacha!
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Okay as much as I believe she is lieing because she regrets it... actually no how the hell didnt she know? I mean come on, she would know and more importantly if she was truely bothered by your behaviour before you alledgyly (the stuff before her sleep) "abused" her she would have left, or moved away. Look she wanted it, now she regrets it. But if this is what you need to believe to keep going then so be it.
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You hear, O LORD,
the desire of the afflicted;
you encourage them,
and you listen to their cry,
defending the fatherless and the oppressed,
in order that man, who is of the earth,
may terrify no more.
Psalm 10:17-18
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05-16-2008, 01:35 PM
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No, she didn't.
Okay, I think I need help again. I just feel completely shit for it now..
She can't get to sleep until 3 in the morning every night.. she randomly breaks into tears.. she holds in her feelings and smiles instead.. she doesn't trust anyone anymore. All because of me.
Am I a bad person? Nobody else thinks they could have made such an awful mistake.. and i'm beginning to doubt myself, maybe I am a bad person. Maybe this world is better without me.
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05-17-2008, 01:52 AM
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Tacha!
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Elyted... baby I really really really do not believe you did anything wrong. I think that you need to A. stop keeping tabs on her B. stop talking to her C. disconnect from her. You are not a bad person, you made a move that she apparently decided she wished she hadnt allowed.
I want to ask you this... Did she at any point say NO, did she at any point move away, when she fell asleep did she move closer to you?
Give a play by play think about her actions as well as yours... please repost for clarification because from what I understand you did nothing wrong.
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You hear, O LORD,
the desire of the afflicted;
you encourage them,
and you listen to their cry,
defending the fatherless and the oppressed,
in order that man, who is of the earth,
may terrify no more.
Psalm 10:17-18
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05-18-2008, 08:57 AM
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She didn't allow it. She was asleep. How could she say no if she was asleep? She was already as close as she could be before she fell asleep. But we were just friends so that didn't mean anything.
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05-18-2008, 11:39 AM
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I'd like to beleive that, but not possible.
For example, "Just friends" don't let eachother touch their tits?
Seriously dude, she's screwing you around and that's that.
want to beleive it or not, that's what's happening.
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05-18-2008, 01:28 PM
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Tacha!
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Totally agree with Cyber...
Look at the facts: she let you mess with her, she didnt like the small parts, then she moved closer to you in the bed? that makes no sense...
She is screwing with you and I really hope you don't get to twisted about this
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You hear, O LORD,
the desire of the afflicted;
you encourage them,
and you listen to their cry,
defending the fatherless and the oppressed,
in order that man, who is of the earth,
may terrify no more.
Psalm 10:17-18
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05-19-2008, 07:24 AM
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Guys! Just trust me! She isn't.
We can barely remember what happened anymore. She can't remember me touching her boobs and I can hardly recall any of it anymore. All we know is that it happened and either way, it was my fault for doing that shit while she was asleep.
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05-19-2008, 05:19 PM
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dude sounds a bit like she lead u on to doin it, tell her that and tell her to get over it, it takes two to tango etc so its not all bad on your part, she played her part and you continued so let that just be it. dont feel bad, just forget it and if she brings it up then tell her off cause from what ive heard so far she brought it on herself. unless by your last post your saying that she never actually let you touch her breasts but if she allowed the orginal play then she cant complain if you went for a home run.
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05-20-2008, 04:44 AM
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ELYTED, i'm gonna have to give you an infraction for that last post, it was rude and innapropriate
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