How do i interperit this?

Anonymous · 03-21-2008, 01:11 PM

Hey everyone.
Ive known this girl for quite a long time now, 5 years infact.
We havnt really been good friends until the last year that just passed.

anyway to get straight to the point.
recently we have been hanging out more, going to each others houses and she started calling me husband to annoy me, so i called her wife cause she hated that...
any way it kinda continued and we still call each other that after a week of it.

So i asked her what she was doing with her weekend and she said she didnt have anything to do and i mentioned that we should have dinner, so she suggested that i go to her house and she would cook us dinner and we could have a few glasses of wine with out dinner and a chat.

Is it just me or does it seam that there is just a little more than friends there?
now am i over reading this, reading it tottally wrong or what...??

to add to it, im the person she talks about sex with, when she doesnt talk to any one else about it, she comes to me when she has relationship problems and she always asks me for advice..

so how should i take this, i mean i would like to have something more than friends with her.
Do you think she could see that i would want that, by always suggesting dinners, drinks and spending time together?
and is there a chance she might feel the same?
AND if im wrong about how she feels she would deffinately freak if i tried something, so do i bother trying?

life just has to be confusing even at the best of times.
advice is very much appreciated

!-nessica-! · 03-21-2008, 01:58 PM

i say just keep it going as it is. flirt with her a little, but wait for her to make the first move, or to suggest the first move. go to dinner with her and do all that, but to stop her from "freaking" dont do anything just yet. thats what i reckon anyway
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nelvannya · 03-21-2008, 06:07 PM

Okay here is my suggestion
GO WITH THE FLOW
If she wants to be more than friends she will let you know at the dinner
Now she might not tell you flat that she likes you, but she will give subtle hints, or might want to have sex... just go with the flow and if you see the right hints then recipricate

Anonymous · 03-22-2008, 07:29 AM

heres the problem with that though.
Girls often think they are showing off that they like a guy or doing things for a guy to notice that there should be more, but its often either not getting through or you need to actually say i like you.

girls are sometimes brilliant at not letting people know that they like them.
And i think that she may also feel that i am.. err too bad for her?

*SnoWhiteQueen* · 03-22-2008, 12:09 PM

Or she just might be your bestie? Some girls prefer to talk personal things like sex even with a guy. Having a male best friend friend is what she might be looking for unless you can really see that she's on to you. As they both said, go with the flow and see the situation.