just an opinion - Page 2

sarah2 · 04-18-2007, 09:07 AM

Don't be sorry, everyones intitled to their own views on the subject, I was just trying to remind people that a lot of the time, when in a position like that, being abused, a lot of other things are happening too and in my case, there was no way I could've had that baby really. Heroin does awful things to babies in the womb, I'd been kicked out of my house (which wasnt actually a bad thing, I mean, it meant I got away from my abuser in the end) but, it wasnt the enviroment to have a child was it.
Yeah it is the worst punishment, but, it's just somthing I've got to live with now and sometimes I think, I did the right thing, but sometimes I wonder how my life might have changed if I'd had the baby. I done know.

CyberPhoenix Kay you make a good point, thats true, Im sure some women might not feel the same hate towards the baby as I did. But I think I worded what I meant wrongly, by "not wanted" I sort of meant, not planned. Finding out you're pregnant when you havnt planned to have a child or anything, isnt an easy situation, is I guess what I was trying to say. But yeah, I recon some mothers do want their babies however they're conceived, but, for me, I cant understand that.

(sha) · 04-19-2007, 04:43 AM

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CyberPhoenix Kay? · 04-19-2007, 05:00 AM

Of course she made the right choice...it's only human to look back and wonder..."i wonder what would happen if i had kept it"...that's just curiosity...i think you made the right choice...doesn't sound at all like the place to raise a child.

sarah2 · 04-19-2007, 05:08 PM

No it wasn't really the best place to raise a child, you're right. It wasn't my finest hour it must be said. It was a hard choice though.
Thanks for the support, I'm lucky to be out of that house and away from the rapist bastard who fucked me up so much.
Yeah, I guess its only human, it's still surreal and painful all the same.
But, it all depends of situation really.

chr153 · 04-20-2007, 03:18 PM

imo i dont think i could abort the baby - but i have never been made pregnant by rape so i dont tink i can actually say - i dont know if i would b able 2 keep the baby though - mayb adopt it

*SnoWhiteQueen* · 04-26-2007, 05:54 AM

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so first off, im just posting this for opinions. it really bothers me and i wanted to know what everyone else thinks. ive seen some shows where someone was raped and got pregnant. right, so if this ever happened to you, would you keep the baby or get an abortion? i would probably keep the baby. i dont believe in abortion at all. and on a show i saw where the girl kept the baby and a few years later someone asked how she could look at her daughter. and she said "everytime i look at her, i dont see the man that raped me, i just see the beautiful child i have raised and all the good in her." or something like that. and it made me think. i couldnt imagine if something like this happened to me or someone i knew. but i couldnt imagine not keeping the baby either. cause if the rapist wasnt around them their whole life then the mother would raise the child the way they wanted to so the father wouldnt affect anything. ya know. but yeah this topic really bothers me, so i was wanting to hear other peoples opinions. anyone?

oh..so true
i would keep the baby definitely, would hate to have feelings of regrets later

Betsybug0 · 04-27-2007, 02:10 AM

Thats why the morning after pill is so groovy!

*SnoWhiteQueen* · 04-27-2007, 04:56 AM

apparently that is like abortion, as the zygote forms fast inside your body..but i might be wrong any how

Nomad · 06-04-2007, 01:46 AM

I am not a female, so I don't know if my opinion is wanted; however, I would have an abortion.

Betsybug0 · 06-04-2007, 03:04 AM

Choices depend on the situation and persons involved. If I had a baby right now it would really fuck up my life, I would have to support the child, give it my time and sacrifice my body at the same time. Although I am selfish, I belive I am mature and I also belive my friends and family would help me through the pregnancy and caring for the child. I just don't know if I could give a part of me up. I would also consider adoption, if somehow I could still be in the child's life while being in school, etc.

(sha) · 06-04-2007, 05:46 AM

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