Crying - Page 2

Tommeh!!! · 09-07-2007, 01:21 PM

I cry loooooaaaads, so much so that my crying has become something that im completely used to and now it scares people. this is cause my crying doesnt really show much emotion, i just sit there, stare into space and have lots of tears, i dont sob anymore or break down. unless its really bad, like when ellie left me, then i cried with brute force.

I find crying to be a big release, but i do wish i didnt cry so much, i even cried in america, i was having a fucking awesome time, yet still sprung a leak in the waterworks. :/
ah well, tis something i have to live with i guess
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And Mark, i have friends that wont cry and they hit stuff....one of them has lots of holes in the walls and doors of his room, another still has a broken hand from punching a metal gate, not to mention his door doesnt close anymore....and of course watching them have one of theses hissy fits isquite uncomfortable, becuase they look fucking stupid marching around and punching things, it almost seems as pretentious as people who cut for attention. :/ Of course im not calling you pretentious and stuff, these are my friends who think they are hard as nails, you are conditioned into it...BIG difference.

Also, try not to grit your teeth, i have big welts along the insides of my cheeks and cracks in my teeth from, gritting my teeth and/ or grinding them in stressful moments. It puts your teeth in shit condition :(

(sha) · 09-13-2007, 03:56 AM

oh my brother grinds his teeth and it is horrible. he has broken little chips off cause of it. kinda like you said. and it makes a horrible sound too. i hate when he does it.

Okta20 · 09-18-2007, 08:14 PM

A person I trust a lot, my rock, my soulfather, who has been in therapy for some time, talked to me a few months ago. Mostly we were talking about *my* rather fragile state of mind, but then he told me about his own therapy, how it helped him.
Suddenly he just leant over and said: "And you know what? I can cry now!" I just smiled, because I knew what that meant to him.

Crying is important sometimes. Being female and depressed I did quite a lot of it. And I'm moved very easily.
Sometimes I hate it.

However, you can cry "on the inside", too. Where nobody notices. Did quite a bit of that, too.

A smart German author once wrote (my translation): "These are the strong, smiling amongst their tears, hiding their worries, making others happy."

Sometimes you have to cry. And sometime you can't.

CyberPhoenix Kay? · 09-19-2007, 03:11 AM

There's alot of truth within what Okta says ...nice
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(sha) · 09-19-2007, 03:32 AM

i agree. thats a great quote. thats hard to do though.

Markme · 09-19-2007, 04:56 AM

Sometimes i should cry, but i wont.

In the last few days ive kinda discovered alot of stuff about myself and a few things about life.

I cant cry, because i see it at as a shameful thing, probably from all thoughs years ago where my brother used to tell me to laugh instead of cry.

I cant say that if i had the chance i would take it, because if i ever feel like crying i will force myself to stop.

Crying and not crying...
Its not essential in some peoples lives, its very essential in others lives. For the emotional people; crying is needed to get out all the problems they cant get out via writing or speaking with some one.

I'm not so good with my english skills, but if im upset with some one.. they will know about it. This stops anything from really building up to a point where i want to cry.

!-nessica-! · 09-19-2007, 05:13 AM

yeah, but as okta said you can cry on the inside as well. which means there doesnt have to be tears to mean you're crying.

my eyes water a lot when im sad and stuff, but i rarely cry my heart out..

Markme · 09-19-2007, 05:22 AM

i dont get what you mean by you can cry on the inside?

!-nessica-! · 09-19-2007, 05:47 AM

your hearts tearing apart but you dont cry for some reason.

you're pretty emotionally wrecked but you dont have tears, just hurts inside.

Markme · 09-19-2007, 06:54 AM

yea i still dont get it, because the only hurt i really know of is physical pain from an injury.

Girls have all these funny emotional things that im probably never going to understand.

!-nessica-! · 09-19-2007, 09:48 AM

lol, its not just girls, boys do it too. you know how you said sometimes you can be incredibly upset, and kinda feel like you wana cry, but you dont? yeah, thats kinda crying inside.

Markme · 09-19-2007, 10:18 AM

lol cant that just be being upset, because i think crying on the inside is just another term for upset. because you can be upset and want to cry or be frustrated and want to cry or be so happy that you want to cry... but is all of this counted as crying on the inside?

!-nessica-! · 09-19-2007, 10:59 AM

hmm no not really..i guess some people would consider it the same, but i think its more when you feel like you are crying, but theres no tears i guess.. its hard to explain...

Almost-Insane · 09-21-2007, 09:02 PM

i cant seem to cry, sometimes iv even tried to make myself cry but i just cant for some reason...inside i defo do, life sucks too much not too.