[sarah2]

To be honest, I don't think it makes any difference wether she cuddled up to you or not, wether she was in thr wrong at all because she wasn't crossing the boundary, but you did cross that line, so whatever she did has really very little relevance.
You can say anything you want and it may not make any difference, you need to show her how sorry you are, and it that means staying composed and stearing out of HER way for a few weeks, well, you're just gonna have to do it. You say you cuddled like this all the time, well, she obviously felt safe doing that with you and you've made her stop feeling safe, once you take that away, it's not just gonna take a few days and a little talk over the internet, it's gonna take a while for her to feel safe around you again.