[CyberPhoenix Kay?]

That is quite a confusing situation....

In one way i would not class it as sexual abuse as it wasn't as bad as cases get...

However it is yes, in a way sexual abuse as you took advantage of her sexually.

Brings me to my next point, if she is cuddling you all the time, and you say that you still like her...well she's leading you on, not saying it gives you are right to do that too her, it doesn't, leading NEVER EVER gives to right for sexual abuse.

But if you still liked her, i can 90 Percent guarantee you she knew that you still liked her, and she led you on anyway, Once again, it doesn't give you an excuse for doing what you did, but it was wrong. She shouldn't be leading you on like that.

So here's what you need to do (IN MY OPINION!) You need to have a serious talk to her, sit her down and say, "Look, we need to talk, and if you are stilly angry, well then i will never talk to you again"

Then you explain your side, tell her that it in no way gave you and excuse and you feel like the worst person in the world and such.
You also need to tell her you want to stay friends, but with that, you would need to her all "possibly" beyond friendly activities must come to a stop. Eg. Cuddling, lots of people like to argue that it is normal things for friends to do. It's not. the end. As you can see, it led somwhere bad for you.

If you can convince her you are looking for a friendship and nothing else, then do so.

But maybe if you like this girl still after a year and she doesn't want to be yours again, maybe you should avoid her and cut the ties.

Just giving you my 5 cents.