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Kitchen Bitch.
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Sunshine Coast, QLD, Australia
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alrighty, thats one way to look at it.....
anyways, most of the time i am against it. i guess cause most of the girls that got pregnant at my school were ones that really shouldnt be having babies cause they cant even take care of themselves. its like babies raising babies. that doesnt seem right to me. but its not like im gonna hate the girls that got pregnant. some of them are actually really good people and i know they will be good parents. ya know. but i also know a few that just cant do it. like my stupid cousin. she was 18 when she got pregnant, with twins.
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well she is one of those that shouldnt have babies. i hate her for what she has done to those babies. i would go into details but im sure you dont want to hear it. okay so i guess i just dont like when druggies or drunks or people like that (i hope that dont offend anyone... sorry if it did), but they shouldnt have babies. they need to get their act straight before they even think about having a baby. anyways, i have a friend that has a baby. she is 18, maybe 19 now. cant remember. well she got pregnant and had her baby a few months after we graduated. but i think she is a great mom cause she knows what she is doing, and she is mature enough to have a baby. ya know. so thats my opinion. its something i feel really strong about. i could write alot more, but i wont.
okay something else, in your case, if you are willing to change your ways to take care of a baby then good for you. just dont forget to take care of the baby the way you are supposed to, it kills me when people dont take care of their babies right. and the fact that you actually care and that you try is a great step in the right direction. oh and if you are in school, dont quit school. thats the stupidest thing someone can do. continue your education and do everything like normal. just cause there is a baby on the way doesnt mean you have to quit school and all that stuff, well good stuff i mean. oh and you have to take lots of baby pics, thats the biggest rule! ha. cause you might regret it if you dont take lots. so do you know if its a boy or girl? and what about names? you gotta keep us posted on how everything is going. okay. good luck!
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Some people will raise a kid like shit, some will raise it well...you gotta give them a chance though...i just think you can't assume that no teens can look after their kids because SOME teens screwed up.
Edit: You also have to remember that alot of adults screw up the same as the teens do, because they are on drugs or whatever...This is more about should they be allowed to have a baby because they are a teenager.
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